We are born ordinary, so we are only capable of overcoming common hurdles and not going beyond our ways and means.
In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with saying, "I don’t know, please help me,” because only by sharing our unknowing with someone who is able to assist us are we able to free ourselves from anxieties and illusions. If we keep our stubbornness and pride intact, yet still wish to become a better person or someone who is fully transformed, then it is like wishing a lemon to taste sweet. Therefore, if we are looking for a better tomorrow, then the way forward is to listen, contemplate, and practice according to someone who is wise, not just intelligent, and most importantly, to have courage to change our mindset