A wise person will always study and think before she or he starts to do something, because once it is said and done,
then there is nothing one can do about the outcome of his or her actions. Therefore, in my opinion, it would be wise on our part to think and study carefully before we act in order to avoid all kinds of hassles.
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There is a famous saying, “When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” There will be a time when we cannot decide our own good due to circumstances. In this kind of situation, for the sake of our own interests, we have to accommodate others and can...not expect others to fit into our needs. Such a move is wise, and it is not about giving away our rights and freedom, but making our future brighter by deciding wisely and meaningfully according to the ground reality.
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Learning is a process and only when we go through this we will reach our destiny. What is also important is that we have to be patient, put in a lot of effort, and act whole heartedly. Otherwise, failure is not far behind us. Particularly, in Buddhism, in order to learn, understand, and ultimately realize the highest truth, we must be prepared to learn patiently. Dedicate all our effort to practice diligently, and be strong enough to pass all the hurdles willingly. Only then we will achieve true freedom from suffering.