There will be times when we cannot really choose what we want and to sail through such a difficult moment we just need to accept whatever the environment has to offer us.
If our stubbornness and ego lead the way, then we have already lost the battle. We must accept changes and try to find a safe haven. Even the world is not kind to us. In order to be blessed, one has to be open to changes and be hopeful. But must make the right effort to fill up our hearts with true love.