It is alway not so easy to come forward and make the right contribution to our society and practise love and kindness especially towards someone whom you hate the most. However, we should first begin with pure intention to help others and gradually followed by our actions.
It is like a kid preparing to walk and in the process learn how to actually walk! Such preparation makes us more successful and brings satisfaction to many! It is not about how heavy you can carry, but how sincere you are to carry the burden of others with just love and care.You could be a small carrier, however, you are still helping to carry with care and thats what really matters! Also another advice is we should not judge about how others live their life; because your place of discomfort could be someone's beautiful home!
with love