It is very easy to blame others for our shortcomings,
but it is much harder to face the consequences of our actions. At the end of the day, we have to be proactive in reflecting to find out why we are facing such problems, since ultimately we are responsible for our own destiny and we are the only ones who can shape our future for the better or worse.
Therefore, whenever we are able to make a positive change, then we should do so wisely. However, if we simply hope for something to happen miraculously, then we may only end up in disappointment.