It is Not A Dream But Real
Let me share my opinion with you. When something exciting or tempting appear in front of us, most likely we will not stop looking at it. Even if we have turned our face away, our mind may still be “looking” at whatever is there
and we may not make it disappear entirely. However, if we know that it is going to be there, the only difference we can make, is to know how to adjust or tame our own mind in such environment.
And also by knowing how it is going to affect us now and in the near future if we try to own it.
By simply looking at the other side may not stop us from thinking and may instead cause our curiosity to grow which may bring pleasure to some but downfall to others.
( Interestingly, Rinpoche posted in FB a picture of a monk sitting with his back facing a naked woman, though the picture itself speaks louder than words but unable to post here due to copyright issues)